Letter to the Editor: Re-elect Humane Leaders: Voice for Voiceless

Dear Editor:

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Every day, elected officials make choices that determine the fate of animals. Only some choose to use their voices to speak for the voiceless.

Morris County is home to a dedicated, dynamic delegation of legislators who consistently fight to protect animals. Those who care about animals in the Garden State should vote to re-elect Senators Anthony Bucco, John McKeon, and Kristin Corrado, as well as Assemblymembers Michelle Matsikoudis, Aura Dunn, Christian Barranco, and Brian Bergen. Each has stood up for a variety of key animal protection issues, such as this year’s landmark ban on the crates used to cruelly confine mother pigs and calves raised for veal; the new law to prohibit the sale of cosmetics tested painfully on animals; and beyond.

It says a lot about a candidate and the way they perceive animals. They are fighting for the chance to change policies, and if they don’t even consider using their positions to address animal cruelty…this gives us an idea of their other values, too.  

Animals only win when humane candidates do, like Senators Anthony Bucco, John McKeon, and Kristin Corrado, as well as Assemblymembers Michelle Matsikoudis, Aura Dunn, Christian Barranco, and Brian Bergen. I hope you’ll join me in supporting their re-election to the New Jersey Senate and Assembly.  

Bill Massi

Local Leaders Rally Behind Carifi, Kandil, and McGrath in Parsippany Fundraiser

PARSIPPANY — Despite the bustling schedule of other Morris County events, the fundraiser for Paul Carifi, Jr., Adam Kandil, and Matthew McGrath attracted a distinguished gathering of Morris County dignitaries and loyal friends, all united in their fervent support for the trio’s upcoming election campaign for the Parsippany-Troy Hills Township Council.

Morris County Clerk Ann Grossi, Amanda McGrath, Parsippany-Troy Hills Council President Loretta Gragnani, Assemblyman Jay Webber, and Robert Quinn proudly displayed their unwavering support for the candidates, underlining the unity and commitment within the Parsippany-Troy Hills community.
Parsippany-Troy Hills Councilman Justin Musella, Council President Loretta Gragnani, and Davey Willans stood together, emphasizing the solidarity and dedication within the Parsippany-Troy Hills upcoming Council Election.
The event also welcomed Santosh Pedi, Former Assemblywoman BettyLou DeCroce, and Parsippany resident Raj Dichpally, all of whom added to the gathering’s significance with their presence.
Bill Spadea, the host of the morning show on 101.5 and the anchor of Chasing News, engaged attendees in a lively discussion about New Jersey politics during the Team Carifi fundraiser, providing valuable insights and fostering informed discourse among the participants.
Parsippany-Troy Hills Councilman Paul Carifi, Jr., took the podium to address the enthusiastic supporters gathered at the fundraiser. Having served on the Parsippany Township Council since 2011, Paul passionately seeks re-election for his next term. His dedication to serving the public and assisting residents and families throughout the town shines through his active involvement in various volunteer activities. Paul’s unwavering commitment has earned him numerous awards and commendations, cementing his status as a dedicated public servant and advocate for the community.
Council Candidate Adam Kandil, a devoted husband and father of four wonderful children, boasts a lifelong connection to Parsippany as a native who was both born and raised in the town. Adam’s educational journey led him through Parsippany High School, where he proudly graduated as part of the Class of 2002. Continuing his pursuit of knowledge, he went on to become an alumnus of Rutgers School of Engineering in 2006, where he even had the honor of serving as the captain of the Rutgers Soccer Team, showcasing his leadership and commitment to excellence.
“Council Candidate Adam Kandil, Morris County Commissioner Tom Mastrangelo, and Parsippany-Troy Hills Councilman Paul Carifi, Jr. Savoring the Camaraderie at Knoll West County Club During Fundraising Event
Matt McGrath, a loving husband and devoted father of four, has dedicated many years to coaching and mentoring the youth of Parsippany, wholeheartedly supporting local youth sports initiatives. Together with his wife Amanda, they share a commitment to providing their children with every opportunity to flourish within the Parsippany community, actively participating in various school-based and community events. As a first-time candidate for the Parsippany Town Council, Matt’s primary focus revolves around the mission to strengthen Parsippany’s foundation, all while maintaining fiscal responsibility to ensure the town’s prosperity and well-being. His passion for community and family values make him a promising candidate dedicated to the town’s betterment.
Councilman Paul Carifi, Jr., and Councilman Justin Musella, joined forces in a united front, demonstrating their commitment to working together for the betterment of their community.
Parsippany-Troy Hills Patrolman Dave Cavaliere and Bill Spadea were just a couple of the many distinguished guests at the fundraiser, demonstrating their unwavering support for the candidates and the community.
Delores dePierro, accompanied by Former Assemblywoman BettyLou DeCroce and Matthew McGrath, along with Carl Burwell, stood united, symbolizing a spirit of unity and common purpose, while sharing a touching and heartwarming moment.
All smiles radiated from AnnMarie Ferrara, Attorney Michael Lavery, and Dr. Maheta, capturing a moment of joy and camaraderie at the event.

In a spirited showdown during the Primary election, Councilman Paul Carifi, Jr., Adam Kandil, and Matt McGrath emerged as the triumphant contenders, securing their place as the standard-bearers for their party. The passionate support of their constituents and their unwavering dedication to the community propelled them to victory.

Now, as the leaves begin to change and the days grow shorter, a new chapter in the political saga of Parsippany-Troy Hills unfolds. With the General election on the horizon, these three candidates find themselves at the crossroads of opportunity and responsibility.

Standing opposite them in the upcoming General election are challengers, Judy Hernandez, Bernard Clarkin, and Matt Kavanagh, each with their unique visions and passionate supporters.

The stage is set for an intense and spirited battle, where the voices of the people will ultimately shape the future of Parsippany-Troy Hills. As the cool breeze of autumn sweeps through the town, the anticipation of change and progress hangs in the air, promising a vibrant and engaging election season ahead.

Explore the Enchantment of North Beverwyck Road: A Tale of Delights Awaits

PARSIPPANY — Embracing the delightful tradition of enchanting North Beverwyck Road, the warm-hearted business owners gathered to adorn the exteriors of their establishments with whimsical fall decorations.

Smiling scarecrows, cozy haystacks, swaying corn stalks, radiant mums, and an array of other endearing embellishments came together to joyfully celebrate the arrival of the enchanting autumn season.

As daylight waned and the stars began to twinkle, these charming decorations whispered tales of friendly gatherings, where laughter echoed in the crisp autumn air, and the spirit of togetherness flourished in the heartwarming season.

Dairy at Lake Hiawatha: A Sweet Oasis in the Heart of North Beverwyck – Savor Homemade Pumpkin Ice Cream or Your Favorite Flavors!”

As you embark on a twilight journey along the enchanting North Beverwyck Road, whether you’re indulging in a delightful scoop of pumpkin ice cream at the Dairy of Lake Hiawatha, savoring the exquisite flavors of Afghanistan at Kabab Paradise, entrusting your locks to the talented hands of Parsippany Cuts, or exploring the floral wonders of Landmark Florist, an array of exciting experiences awaits you.

Amidst this captivating parade of wonders, don’t let the bewitching Unity Bank elude your gaze. Within its newly remodeled branch, secrets of grandeur and mystique await discovery, as their decorations weave a spellbinding tale that beckons you to linger in the enchanting realm of Lake Hiawatha.

Unity Bank Transforms with Scarecrows, Pumpkins, and Hay Decorations

Established in April 2011, “The Friends of Lake Hiawatha” emerged as a non-profit organization driven by a singular mission: to elevate the aesthetics of the Lake Hiawatha business area and foster a stronger sense of community within the neighborhood.

One of the hallmark events orchestrated by “The Friends of Lake Hiawatha” is the highly anticipated Winterfest, a cherished gathering held annually on Saturday, December 9. This event has garnered widespread popularity among both children and parents alike. Santa Claus himself makes a grand entrance, arriving in splendid style aboard the Lake Hiawatha fire truck, graciously aided by volunteer firefighters.

Once Santa takes his seat in the charming Gazebo, children are treated to a heartwarming visit. Thanks to Santa’s diligent elves, each child receives a sweet candy cane and a ticket to participate in the organization’s annual raffle. While eagerly awaiting their turn with Santa, the little ones savor hot chocolate and cookies while being serenaded by the festive sounds of holiday music. As the evening draws to a close, “The Friends of Lake Hiawatha” host a thrilling raffle, awarding ten-inch girls’ and boys’ bicycles to two fortunate winners, adding an extra dose of excitement to the festivities.

The present custodians of this noble organization, Antoinette Piccolo-Simmons, and John Pascarella, remain dedicated to the ongoing enhancement of Beverwyck Road and the provision of community-oriented activities. Their commitment ensures that the spirit of camaraderie and the beautification of the neighborhood continue to flourish.

Letter to the Editor: Concerns Rise Over Mayor Barberio’s Behavior

Dear Editor:

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What is happening to Mayor Barberio and is it time for Parsippany residents to become concerned? 

At the Tuesday, October 3, Parsippany-Troy Hills Council meeting, the Mayor became increasingly, belligerent, bullying, and frequently incoherent. Repeating himself several times in just a matter of minutes, he made angry and false accusations against Councilman Justin Musella and two Parsippany employees whom he thought were going to speak negatively about him during the public portion of the Council meeting. As it turns out his accusation against Mr. Musella was completely false and only one Parsippany employee spoke and his tone was both respectful and free of any of the vitriol the Mayor was so afraid of.   

Of some interest was Mayor Barberio’s claim that he ran a sanitation company. (In the past Mayor Barberio has refused to provide information about his employment prior to becoming Mayor as well as continuing to remain silent about his educational background). 

Also of note is the Mayor’s repeated references to his relatively short stint as the part-time Municipal Administrator in Tewksbury (population 5,788) and Lebanon (1,666)  which he claims makes him uniquely qualified to manage the complex financial and labor issues facing Parsippany (population 52,265).  Come on Mr. Mayor your complete fumbling and bumbling of the last two budget processes certainly undermines that claim. 

So maybe it’s time for an intervention by his enablers on the Council who looked somewhat uncomfortable and embarrassed by the Mayor’s most recent nonsensical ramblings and rantings. And maybe it’s time for Parsippany residents to take notice and begin to think of  Mayoral alternatives as they did when they voted Mr. Barberio out of office the last time around.

Bob Crawford

A Night of Emotion and Insight: ‘Black Friday’ Unveils Its Gripping Tale

PARSIPPANY — The stage is set for an upcoming event that promises to be an unforgettable night of drama and introspection as the curtains prepare to rise on “Black Friday,” a powerful play by Michael O’Hagan. In a world filled with stereotypes, military experiences, and emotionally fraught relationships, the audience is about to embark on a journey that will leave them both moved and contemplative.

The story unfolds in the harsh and unforgiving backdrop of a remote military checkpoint in Iraq. Airman Brendan Donohue, portrayed by the talented Douglas McLaughlin, is a young and impulsive wiseass, eager to prove himself on the battlefield. His counterpart, Staff Sgt. Shannon Hoffman, played by the formidable Dave Murgittroyd, is a senior-ranking female teammate who has seen it all and is not one to tolerate Brendan’s brashness.

Trapped together on assignment as security forces defenders, their lives are about to take a dramatic turn. The audience watches with bated breath as a reluctant antagonist enters the picture, setting off a chain of tragic and unexpected events that will test the characters to their very core.

“Black Friday” is not a play for the faint of heart; it is a gripping exploration of the human experience. With a perfect blend of dark humor, intense interpersonal dynamics, and a palpable sense of high stakes, the play delves deep into the complexities of identity, prejudice, and the enduring scars of war.

Under the expert direction of Lauren Moran, the cast brings these complex characters to life. Lilli Markey and Lizzy Raine add depth and dimension to the storyline, creating a riveting ensemble that leaves the audience hanging on to every word and gesture.

But “Black Friday” is more than just a theatrical experience; it is an opportunity to give back to those who have sacrificed so much. All proceeds from the performance will be donated to the Elks Army of Hope, a noble organization dedicated to supporting veterans and their families.

As the final curtain falls and the applause reverberates through the theater, it is evident that “Black Friday” has made a profound impact. It is a story of courage, redemption, and the enduring human spirit—a story that will resonate with all who have the privilege of witnessing it.

Directed by Lauren Moran; Starring Douglas McLaughlin, Dave Murgittroyd, Lilli Markey, and Lizzy Raine.

“Black Friday” will premiere on Sunday, November 12, at 3:00 p.m. at Parsippany Playhouse, 1130 Knoll Road, Parsippany. Suggested donation of $20.00. Proceeds for this performance will be donated to Elks Army of Hope.

For those who wish to be part of this emotional journey, the ticket link is readily available, and reservations can be made by emailing lomotionlive@gmail.com. or by clicking here.

“Black Friday” is not just a play; it is an invitation to explore the depths of human emotion and understanding, and an opportunity to support a worthy cause while doing so. Don’t miss this upcoming event that promises to be a night of emotion and insight.

About Army of Hope: “The work of the committee through your donations, has helped many soldiers and families from losing heat in the winter, being removed from housing, and many other daily survival needs. We support job fairs to help the many veterans and soldiers get jobs as they return to civilian life or just get back on their feet. They need our help in so many ways”.

Beloved Kelly Lustig Passes Away at 84: A Life Remembered

PARSIPPANY  — Kelly Lustig passed on October 11, 2023, at the age of 84.

She was born on September 25, 1939, to Dr. Mitchell and Sybil Shack. Though her legal name is Roberta Nancy Shack, in her teens she went by Nancy; but to most people, for most of her life she was known as Kelly. We like to think that’s why she had such a big bright personality. Kelly grew up in Newark and spent her summers at Camp Weequahic in Northeastern Pennsylvania. It was there that she met her husband, Jerry Lustig. The two were captains of the first camp-wide Olympics competition and were directors of the camp for most of their adult lives.

Kelly went to Weequahic High School in Newark, attended Skidmore College in Saratoga Springs, New York, and got her Master’s Degree at Rutgers University. She and Jerry got married on June 23, 1963.

In addition to her work at Weequahic, Kelly taught elementary school in Parsippany until she gave birth to her children Jodi and Steven. She very proudly became a Bat Mitzvah at her older age, singing her haftarah beautifully after long nights practicing with her beloved tuneful dog, Jax. She worked tirelessly for the Mount Pleasant Animal Shelter, sang in Congregation Agudeth Israel’s choir, and was an avid fan of her grandchildren’s football and lacrosse games. The Twin Boro Bears, New York Giants, and Michigan Wolverines have lost a most cheesetastic fan!

Kelly Lustig was a member of the Mount Pleasant Animal Shelter Board for more than 20 years and served as President, Vice President, and Secretary in addition to serving on the Development and Finance Committees. Kelly would often say that her greatest joy was doing Pet Therapy visits with her MPAS adoptees Jax and Dani. Kelly’s thoughtful nature brought smiles to the faces of those whose lives she made better.

She was a long-time member of the Kiwanis Club of Greater Parsippany joining the organization in 1994.

Kelly was the beloved wife of Gerald Lustig for 60 years, the loving mother of Jodi Lustig (Adam Wattstein) and Steven Lustig (Kim Lustig), devoted grandmother of Austin, Mason, and Colton.

A funeral service for Kelly will be held Sunday, October 15, 2023, at 1:00 p.m. at Bernheim-Apter-Kreitzman Suburban Funeral Chapel, 68 Old Short Hills Road, Livingston, New Jersey. Following the funeral service will be a burial at 2:15 PM at Mount Lebanon Cemetery, 189 Gill Lane, Iselin, New Jersey.

In lieu of flowers, please consider giving a gift to Kelly’s favorite charity: the Mount Pleasant Animal Shelter, 194 Route 10, East Hanover, New Jersey 07936.

Letter to the Editor: The Critical Role of Cannabis Legislation

Dear Editor:
This is a crucial time for cannabis legislation in Parsippany. Here’s why…

The election for the Parsippany Troy-Hills Township Council is coming up on November 7th, and we must bring Class 5 Cannabis Retail to the forefront!

There are three council member seats and six candidates running to fill those positions.

The six candidates are:
Republicans
Paul Carifi Jr. (incumbent)
Adam Kandil
Matthew McGrath

Democrat
Judy Hernandez
Bernard Clarkin
Matthew Kavanagh

I strongly suggest reaching out to all of them and asking what their stance is on amending the cannabis ordinance to permit Class 5 cannabis retailers to operate in town especially since a cannabis distributor was recently approved to operate in town pending a state license from the New Jersey Cannabis Regulatory Commission.

We need to elect the best candidates who will advocate for locally-owned tax-generating small businesses so that legitimate cannabis companies like Happy Daze Boutique have a fighting chance to operate a state-licensed dispensary in town.

Get informed and exercise your right to vote so that we can move cannabis forward in Parsippany.

Our future taxes may depend on it!

Respectfully,
Cassara Grasso
CEO & Co-Founder
Happy Daze Boutique

County College of Morris Art Exhibit Features Chosen Works from the Permanent Collections

MORRIS COUNTY — County College of Morris (CCM) is excited to host an exhibition of works chosen from the college’s own permanent collections. This display will be the first of its kind at CCM, as it will showcase several recent donations and additions to the institutional compendium of art and design work.

This special exhibition is a direct result of a recent donation of eight works by the seminal abstract artist Vincent Baldassano. The variety of work spans the entire career of the artist and includes acrylic paintings that broadly cover periods of figural and non-figural abstraction, surrealist and neo-humanist tendencies, plus other colors, shapes, and composition experiments. Baldassano has been featured in more than 50 solo and 100 group exhibitions over his six-decade career, covering ground from New York and Connecticut to Italy and Portugal. His work is also held in several public and private collections in the USA, Europe, and China, including several community college collections in New Jersey.

CCM is also proud to feature a limited-edition print donated by the Syrian-American artist and architect Mohamad Hafez, who delivered a Legacy Project lecture on campus in 2020 relating to his seminal series UNPACKED: Refugee Baggage. Also included will be printed works, paintings, and sculptures recently donated by clients represented by Mana Contemporary in Jersey City.

Foundation have steadily built a significant collection of art by seeking donations from influential and internationally respected artists,” says Dr. Brian Sahotsky, CCM Gallery Director and Assistant Professor, Art and Humanities Department, “We accept work from regional art collectives, directly commissioning work by local artists, and collect work from CCM alumni.”

An opening reception, free for the community, will be held on Thursday, October 19, from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. The exhibit runs through Thursday, November 9.

The Art Gallery is located in the Sherman H. Masten Learning Resource Center on CCM’s campus, 214 Center Grove Road, Randolph. Gallery hours are Monday through Friday 9:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.

To learn about CCM’s Art and Design programs click here.

Stories from Beverwyck: Lives Bought and Sold

PARSIPPANY  — The Parsippany Historical and Preservation Society invites you to a presentation at Parsippany-Troy Hills Public Library, 449 Halsey Road, Parsippany, entitled “Stories from Beverwyck: Lives Bought and Sold,” Wednesday, October 18, at 6:30 p.m.


Come listen to the story of Aunt Peggy, an enslaved person who lived and worked at Beverwyck, the large farm plantation once located at the current site of the NJ Transit Bus Stop at Beverwyck and Route 46.

The Wellness Gala Presents: An Unprecedented Day of Insight

PARSIPPANY — Join the Wellness Gala on Sunday, November 12, from 12:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. at the Sheraton Hotel, 199 Smith Road. Parsippany for “An Unprecedented Day of Insight.”

Experience a gathering of globally acclaimed Intuitives and healers ready to share their wisdom on a range of topics. The event will feature an interactive Q&A session, addressing questions on love, career, spirituality, and beyond.

Delve deeper with healing sessions, engaging mini-workshops, wine tastings, food, and exclusive vendor exhibits.

Support the Humane Society through the silent auction.

Don’t miss the keynote speaker, Mas Sajady, presenting “Change your Frequency, Change your Life”, followed by hands-on healing and meditation at 5:00 p.m.

Enjoy a VIP exclusive opportunity to meet and interact with panel members and our celebrity guest, Concetta Bertoldi; a renowned psychic medium and NYTimes best-selling author.

For tickets and more details, click here.

Also, catch ‘Balance Your Life’ TV show every Saturday at 10:30 a.m. in the NY metro area on Optimum channel 61 and Fios 530. Or watch anytime on YouTube: by clicking here.”