PARSIPPANY — On Memorial Day, Parsippany held a solemn observance to honor and pay tribute to those who have served in the military. The event commemorated the sacrifices of brave men and women who have defended our country. It allowed the community to unite, remember the fallen, and express gratitude for their service and dedication.

Parsippany-Troy Hills Mayor James Barberio addressed the audience. “I welcome you here this Memorial Day as we remember and honor the men and women who valiantly sacrificed their lives for the cause of freedom for our great nation. Our nation is as strong as it is because of the heroes that paid the ultimate price for their service to their country. Valiantly facing fear, these men and women did not back down even when they knew the odds were not in their favor. They were not fearless; they knew the risks but chose to fight bravely. That is pure and simple courage, which we pay tribute to today. There are no words that can adequately thank them or their families. The best we can do is remember them today and always. It does not seem like enough, but it is the only way to pay our respects, acknowledge their heroism, and continue to thank them for their service and sacrifice. Our nation is a better place because of these service men and women. Today as we look upon our nation’s flag, I ask you to remember your freedoms and blessings. I also ask that you remember living here in the great United States of America is a privilege.”

The keynote speaker, Siobhan Fuller McConnell, said, “Ten years ago, on March 18, 2013, my son’s fiancee called me and gave me the worst news I have ever received. All I could do was sit at the top of the stairs and scream. My 23-year-old son, Sgt Derek McConnell, died of complications from wounds received in Afghanistan on July 23, 2011. While on patrol in the Zhari District, he encountered two IEDS that left him catastrophically injured. He lost both legs and the use of his right hand. He sustained fractures to his skull, jaw, and pelvis. He also endured a TBI and numerous infections that almost took him from us several times. He fought hard for 20 months but eventually climbed to eternal glory, shocking everyone who knew him.”

“I am a Gold Star Mother. My son and the 2.8 million others who have died for this country since the birth of this nation are why we have a three-day weekend this weekend. They are the ones who gave all, who selflessly signed on the bottom line and agreed to sacrifice their lives for us so that we could continue to live in a free country. No matter where their battlefield was, whether it was the beaches of Normandy, the islands of the Pacific, the deserts of Iraq or Syria, the mountains of Afghanistan, the skies over Europe, the jungles of Vietnam, or elsewhere-the stories of the fallen matter and need to be told, their sacrifices can never be forgotten. We owe them a debt of gratitude and undying respect and admiration. We can pay tribute to their memories and sacrifices by visiting their gravesites, placing flags or wreaths, or simply speaking their names. To truly honor their lives, we must share their stories with others and ensure their memories live on even though they are gone,” she continued.

“My son, Sgt Derek McConnell, paid that price. A few others from New Jersey whose names I will never forget and whose stories I have been told are SSG Timothy McGill, 30, lLT Dennis Zilinski II, 23, Spec. Ryan Doltz, 26. I’ve met their families, and I know their pain. We also have the 13 who died on August 26, 2021, at the Abbey Gate in Afghanistan, whose families I have also met and whose stories I will never forget. Among them is Staff Sgt. Darin T. Hoover, 31; Lance Corporal Rylee J. Mccollum, 20; Staff Sgt. Ryan C. Knauss, 23) Lance Cpl. David L. Espinoza, 20.”

“By sharing their stories, we keep their memories alive and give others a glimpse of the heroes they were. Derek was a true joy. He was a pain in the butt and drove us crazy, but ultimately, he was the one you wanted in your corner. He made us laugh. He made us want to kill him. There is a hole in our hearts that will never be full again. I could stand here for hours and regale you with stories of Derek that would make you laugh and cry. He is missed, and he will never be forgotten. I believe that those who have left us are always around us. They whisper to us like a light breeze across our ears, reminding us that we must cherish the gift of life. They smile at our sleeping children, the nieces and nephews they will never know. If we are still and open our minds and hearts, we can catch glimpses of them, whether it be in the dying rays of a sunset, the waves of the ocean as they crash against the shore, a butterfly or dragonfly that gently lands on a flower, or a song on the radio. If you listen closely, you can hear them whisper, “I am here. I am at peace. Carry on and never forget. Until we meet again.”

She continued, “It is up to us to use the gifts secured by those who made the ultimate sacrifice, to do as much good as possible and honor a debt that can never be repaid. On Memorial Day, we reflect and share the experiences of our fallen loved ones, but tomorrow and in the days that follow, we must act. Let’s carry their sacrifice with us in our hearts and strive to honor their memory by being good and faithful, hopeful and strong, and committed to building a brighter future for all. As a nation, we must remind ourselves of the future they fought for and do our best to live up to those values in the days ahead.”

Freedom is not free, and today we thank those who paid the price.

PARSIPPANY — Rainbow Lakes held its Annual Memorial Service to Honor Fallen Heroes on Saturday, May 27, at Rainbow Park.

Charlie Engfer served in the United States Marine Corps in the late 60s and early 70s.

Charlie Engfer, serving as master of ceremonies, opened the ceremony with the following speech:

“It is my honor to be here today as we come together to remember and honor the service and sacrifice of our nation’s finest and bravest. As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not just to utter words, but to live by them.”

“We find ourselves here on this day, gathered together to reflect on this sentiment, uttered many years ago by President John F. Kennedy: Words, he believed, were useless when unaccompanied by action. This is why we – the money – gather here to honor our veterans – the few who were so willing to give of themselves to defend their brother and their country. A small fraction of our population is charged with keeping us safe and our liberties intact. So today, we strive to properly thank this fragment of the population that has done so much to keep this country, our prosperity, and our freedoms in place. It’s interesting how different generations of veterans respond to being thanked for their service. Our World War II veterans generally seem to receive it politely – stoically – knowing they had fulfilled their patriotic duty by fighting abroad. Korean and Vietnam War veterans, at times, overlooked, seem genuinely touched when welcomed home and remembered. Gratitude is accepted by our most recent generation of veterans, representing an even smaller percentage of the population than in previous wars. Still, many feel disconnected from their civilian peers,” said Engfer.

Parsippany-Troy Hills Mayor said, “I would like to welcome everyone on this solemn occasion as we pay tribute to the servicemen and women who selflessly sacrificed for their country. Each year we reaffirm our appreciation for those that were lost in service. We come together in this ceremony and speak about bravery and honor, but I am not sure that is enough to thank the servicemembers and their families for what they have lost. I think a better way to demonstrate our gratitude is by showing we are united as Americans. We do that as we unite today under one flag and pledge allegiance to this great nation. We must show we are united today and every day; otherwise, their sacrifice will have been in vain. We do not want to forget the powerful price of freedom. We need to ensure the legacy of these heroes by continuing to tell their stories to new generations and preserving their place in history. What makes our nation great are the ordinary people who stepped up when called into service or volunteered their service to protect and defend the United States. Their courage is an inspiration to all of us. Honor them, cherish their memories, and remember they may be lost but never forgotten and are always revered.”

Morris County Clerk Ann Grossi and a Parsippany resident addressed the audience.

During the Annual Memorial Service held at Rainbow Park, Morris County Clerk Ann Grossi, a dedicated public servant and a resident of Parsippany, delivered a poignant address to the audience. With her insightful words, she acknowledged the sacrifices made by our fallen heroes and expressed gratitude for their service. Her presence and heartfelt speech added depth and meaning to the memorial service, reminding everyone of the significance of honoring those who have served our country. 

She said, “Memorial Day weekend, the unofficial start of the summer season, begins today. As we enjoy the company of our friends and families at BBQs, picnics, or a trip to the Jersey shore, let us not forget the true reason for this holiday. Originally known as Decoration Day, soldiers honor their fallen comrades by laying flowers, wreaths, and flags at their gravesites. In the late 1800s, the name changed to Memorial Day, but it would not become an officially recognized holiday until 1967. This Monday, May 29, is Memorial Day. It’s a day dedicated to honoring those men and women in our armed forces who sacrificed for our country. True heroes who deserve recognition. Each of us can show our gratitude to these heroes in many ways. Here are just a few.”

RESPECT … Respect our country, our flag, and each other. Remember those who died so that we might enjoy our many freedoms.

TEACH … Teach your children the meaning of Memorial Day. Teach them that America is the greatest nation in the world. We’re not perfect, but we strive to be. Teach them to be proud to pledge allegiance to our flag and our country.

GIVE THANKS… If you should meet a military member, say “THANK YOU” … a small gesture, but oh so meaningful to them.

REMEMBER… Remember the words of Ronald Reagan: “WE ARE FOREVER INDEBTED TO THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES SO WE MAY BE FREE.”

So on Monday, please take a moment to reflect on the reasons that enable us to enjoy this time with family and friends. Please take a moment to thank our fallen heroes and our mighty military silently,” Grossi continued.

In closing, Engfer said, I would like to recognize those who have lost a loved one in the line of duty of this country. It doesn’t matter how much time has passed – no words of condolence can even begin to console a survivor’s grief adequately. And while grief from the loss may change throughout the years, it never leaves us.”

PARSIPPANY — The Township of Parsippany-Troy Hills has scheduled its Memorial Day Parade on Monday, May 29, at Noon. The parade will take place on North Beverwyck Road, offering a fitting tribute to honor and remember those who have sacrificed in service to their country.

At approximately 10:30 a.m., numerous roads will be blocked to maintain a safe and secure parade route. Those roadways will be reopened at approximately 3:00 p.m. Please see the diagram below of the parade route, road closures, and limited access areas.

MORRIS COUNTY — The Morris County Board of County Commissioners recognizes resident Veterans by presenting them with the Distinguished Military Service Medal. These medals are unique to Morris County, although copied in many ways, and were first issued in 1999 to honor WWII veterans on the 55th Anniversary of the 1944 D-Day invasion and the liberation of France from Nazi occupation. Morris County expanded the medals to include Vietnam and Korea, as well as general service in our military during other conflicts. In 2022, Morris County unveiled medals for Iraq and Afghanistan. These honors are presented to veterans who served honorably and helped make our nation and Morris County a better place to live.

Several Parsippany residents were honored. They included:

Gary R. Martin

Mr. Martin is a U.S. Navy veteran who served from 1974 to 1978. He is a Vietnam-era and post-Vietnam-era veteran who receives the National Defense Service Ribbon and is a naval pistol sharpshooter.

Mr. Martin is also a graduate of the Morris and Essex Police Academy and served his community as a police officer. He is also a 32-degree Master Mason and past Masonic Shrine clown.

Edward W. D’Angelo, (posthumous)

A veteran whose military service spanned 43 years. Unfortunately, Mr. D’Angelo passed away in 2009.

Mr. D’Angelo was a career Naval Officer who enlisted with the U.S. Navy before his 17th birthday and served on active duty during the Korean War. He rose to Chief Petty Officer as a Seabee and retired as a Chief Warrant Officer-4.

His many awards were two National Defense Service Medals, three Naval Reserve Meritorious Service Medals, and three Armed Forces Reserve Medals.

He continued to serve in the Naval Reserve while working as an electrician until 1990. He also served as a Morris County Deputy Sheriff and a Parsippany Police Department Special Officer.

This veteran also proudly raised five children, four of whom graduated from Penn State University. 

Edward J. D’Angelo

Son of Edward W. D’Angelo and brother to Michael F. D’Angelo, he is also a decorated career naval officer. Mr. D’Angelo served in the Navy from 1986 until 2016 and is a veteran of Panama, Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm, Somalia, Bosnia/Herzegovina, Haiti, Operation Enduring Freedom, and Operation Iraqi Freedom.

He attended Penn State and participated in Naval ROTC as a Midshipman from 1982 to 1986. He was commissioned as an Ensign and qualified as a Naval Aviator.

Mr. D’Angelo has flown over 4,000 hours, mostly in helicopters, and has completed ten overseas deployments, eight on aircraft carriers. He is credited with 15 life-saving rescues, including a dangerous ocean rescue during Hurricane Floyd.

His impressive resume also is on our website. But let me note Mr. D’Angelo was promoted to Captain, and his awards include 3 Legions of Merit, the Distinguished Flying Cross, 3 Meritorious Service Medals, and 5 Navy Commendations.

Mr. D’Angelo is happily married, living in Florida, and is a proud father of twins.

Michael D’Angelo

A Morris Catholic graduate, Lt. Commander D’Angelo served in the U.S. Navy for 40 years from 1982 to 2022, and earned roughly 50 special military honors and awards for that service.

He began his career as a Naval Air Crewman on various aircraft carriers supporting escorts for re-flagged Kuwaiti tankers, Iranian retaliatory strikes, and operations in Libya.

Although heft active duty in 1986, he joined the Naval Reserve, was recalled on 9/11, and was commissioned a Naval Cryptologic Officer in 2003. 

His deployments included Afghanistan, and his many assignments included the Combined Joint Special Operations Task Force supporting Operation ENDURING FREEDOM, commanding the Navy Operational Support Center in Pennsylvania, working in the Pentagon, serving on the Chief of Naval Operations staff, serving the Space and Naval Warfare Systems Command and the Navy Personnel Command in Tennessee.

Michael’s son, David, is a Chief Petty Officer and Navy Seabee Diver.

Joel Lebowitz

A veteran of the U.S. Army and New Jersey National Guard who served from 1970 to 1999 during Operation Desert Shield and Desert Storm.

He receives the Army Service Ribbon, National Defense Service Medal, Army Reserve Component Achievement Medal, Army Commendation Medal, Meritorious Service Medal, and the Armed Forces Reserve Medal. He was awarded the Non-Commissioned Officer Professional Development Ribbon, New Jersey Ribbon of Merit, New Jersey Governor Award, National Guard Unit Strength, and NJ Meritorious Service Medal.

He earned a bachelor’s degree from Bloomfield College and was CEO of Wayne Camera Center. He is a member of the American Legion, Jewish War Veterans, and a Master Mason.

Joel and his wife Sharon have been married for 55 years. They have one son and two grandsons.

PARSIPPANY — The Memorial Day Parade in the Township of Parsippany-Troy Hills on Monday, May 29 is definitely something to look forward to. With the event starting at 12:00 noon, attendees will have the opportunity to pay tribute to and remember the brave individuals who have served in the military.

The parade will take place on North Beverwyck Road in Lake Hiawatha. It’s a great way for the community to unite and show support for those who have sacrificed for their country.

MORRIS COUNTY — Morris County Prosecutor Robert J. Carroll, Chief of Detectives Robert M. McNally, and Morris Township Chief Robert Shearer confirmed the sentencing of Michael Rave, 54, formerly of Morris Township, now residing in Pennsville Township.

On January 31, Rave pled guilty to one count of Endangering the Welfare of a Child (Possession of CSAM), a third-degree crime, and one count of Criminal Sexual Contact, a fourth-degree crime.

The investigation began with a CyberTip from the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC), referencing video files depicting the sexual exploitation of a minor. The investigation revealed that the defendant also possessed numerous videos of himself engaged in an online chat website called “Omegle,” wherein he exposed himself to several 14-year-old victims. The victims in these instances have been identified by law enforcement.

Rave was sentenced on May 19 by the Honorable Noah Franzblau J.S.C. to a two-year period of probation, continued sex offender therapy, and community notification under Megan’s Law.

Prosecutor Carroll would like to thank the Morris Township Police Department, Department of Homeland Security, Morris County Sheriff’s Emergency Response Team (SERT), New Jersey State Police Internet Crimes Against Children Unit, and the Morris County Prosecutor’s Office Internet Crimes Against Children Task Force for their efforts in the investigation, arrest, and conviction of this defendant.