PARSIPPANY — James R. Stefel, 42, of Largo, Florida, passed away at his home on December 5, 2025. Born on August 31, 1983, in West Orange, James was the beloved son of Ruthann and James “Jimmy” Stefel. He was known for his warm heart, generous spirit, and deep love for his family, friends, and animals. He adored his cat, Princess Pete, and would feed any strays that came their way. Though often quiet and reserved, those who truly knew James discovered a fun-loving, caring, and intensely loyal man who left a lasting impression on everyone he welcomed into his world.
James grew up in Parsippany and was the youngest of his siblings. He volunteered for several years with the Parsippany Rescue and Recovery Unit alongside his father. He later attended John Jay College of Criminal Justice (CUNY), where he earned a degree in Criminal Justice, followed by a Master of Science in Protection Management.
James built a successful career as a Lead Associate in CIB Quality Assurance with JPMorgan Chase in Delaware. When his mother fell ill, James relocated to Florida to be by her side and help care for her until her passing—a true testament to his devotion and love. He spent the remainder of his life in Florida.
James is survived by his aunt and uncle, Virginia and Victor Chewning; their children, Jessica Valukis and her wife, Shannon, and Derek Valukis; his brother-in-law, Dwain Decker; his sister-in-law, Lisa Pizzi; and his nieces and nephews, Jennifer and her husband, Matt Semple; Nicole and Christopher Decker; Anthony Pizzi; Tiffany and her husband, Devon DePersio; and Juliana Pizzi. He was a proud great-uncle to Gabrianna, Brody, and Everleigh Semple.
He was preceded in death by his parents, Ruthann and James “Jimmy” Stefel; his brother, Charles Pizzi; and his sister, Deborah Decker.
A celebration of James’s life will be held at a later date for close family and friends. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Humane Society of Pinellas or the Parsippany Rescue and Recovery Unit.
His cat, Princess Pete, is looking for a new forever home after this devastating loss. She will soon be going to Suncoast Animal League; those interested in adoption are encouraged to reach out directly.
James will be deeply missed and forever remembered. His spirit lives on through the memories shared, the stories told, and the love he leaves behind—forever loved, forever remembered, and always in our hearts.
